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Service Offered

The service offered is a project of Love-coach.online and refers to a specific video course on relationship coaching. Please note:

This service does not constitute a therapeutic, psychological, or medical product or service. Individuals with medical conditions or disorders are encouraged to consult licensed therapists or other healthcare professionals. This service is intended for personal development and educational purposes, as well as to discourage any form of verbal or physical violence, which should always be condemned — as any relationship must be built on complete freedom and mutual respect. This service is a personal development tool designed to strengthen your social and relational skills. Specific outcomes are not guaranteed, as results may vary based on numerous factors, including the user’s commitment to applying the concepts learned and external circumstances.

Artistic Representation

The character in the video is portrayed by a professional actor who faithfully represents the experiences and expertise of a real relationship coach on our team. The decision to use an actor was made to ensure clear and effective communication, while maintaining transparency and accuracy in the presentation of our services.

Scientific References

The relationship coaching method promoted here aims to support personal growth and individual development, focusing on areas such as self-awareness, confidence, relational communication skills, empathy, and resilience, as well as improving relationship and interpersonal dynamics. The key elements of the method are listed below along with their scientific sources:

Conceptualization: guides the individual toward a deeper understanding of the importance of changing thoughts and behaviors to improve the relationship, emphasizing mutual respect and building strong bonds. Key scientific references include: John B. Watson’s behavioral theories (1924). Aaron T. Beck (1979) and Judith S. Beck’s (1995) research on cognitive behavioral therapy. Burrhus Frederic Skinner’s reinforcement concepts (1938, 1953, 1971, 1957). “The ACT Matrix” by Kevin Polk, Benjamin Schoendorff, Mark Webster, and Fabian Olaz (2016). Vittorio Gallese’s studies on empathy and intersubjectivity (2003). Andrew Whiten (2018) and Richard W. Byrne’s (2018) research on social and cultural cognition.

Zero Contact: This phase focuses on the importance of a period of distance from your partner in certain circumstances, to encourage personal reflection and rediscover your value in the relationship. Key scientific references include: The role of reinforcement and extinction according to Burrhus Frederic Skinner (1938, 1953, 1971, 1957). Robert Cialdini’s scarcity principle (2001). Konrad Lorenz’s ethological theories. Helen Fisher’s studies on love and desire (2016).

Relationship Recovery: Based on the Gottman Method for improving romantic relationships, focusing on understanding, conflict management, and mutual respect. Key scientific references include: John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman’s principles for a successful marriage (1999).

Evolutionary Levers: Focuses on how to engage instinctual mechanisms to create deep and lasting connections, aligning behavior with a partner’s needs and desires. Key scientific references include: MacLean’s studies on the limbic system and triune brain (1952, 1990). Carl Sagan’s reflections on the evolution of human intelligence (1977).

Preselection: Helps understand the concept of social attractiveness linked to preselection — how a person becomes more desirable when already chosen by others. Key scientific references include: Robert Cialdini’s consensus and social proof principle (2001). Robert Trivers’ concept of parental investment and sexual selection (1972).

Mindset: This phase is dedicated to developing leadership, self-control, and self-awareness through five key principles of self-understanding and self-esteem. Key scientific references include: Kurt Lewin’s force field theory (1951). David M. Buss and David P. Schmitt’s studies on attractiveness and social status (1993). Judith Dunn and Richard Searle’s research on attractiveness and partner selection (2010).

Nurturing: Focuses on the importance of being perceived as a partner capable of caring for a family — a critical factor in attractiveness and partner suitability. Key scientific references include: David M. Buss (2012) and James W. Kalat’s (2013) studies on partner preferences related to resources. Nancy Macpeace Tunner’s research on mating behavior (1981).

Vicious Cycles and Biases: Helps recognize and avoid vicious cycles and cognitive biases that can negatively impact communication and relationship satisfaction. Key scientific references include: Kahneman’s “Thinking, Fast and Slow” (2011) and Tversky and Kahneman’s “Judgment under Uncertainty: Heuristics and Biases” (1974). Beck’s “Cognitive Therapy of Depression” (1979). Gottman’s “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” (1999).